I'm a girl, and after telling my boyfriend about my fantasy of topping boys, he expressed willingness to try it out (!!!). I have a average-sized dildo (roughly 6" long, 1.5" wide), but I'm worried that might be too big to start with. So, I have a couple questions: (1) What are some good ways to get someone prepared for anal penetration, and (2) should I maybe invest in a smaller-than-normal dildo to start out with?
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Any and all advice/references would be much appreciated.